What You Say Nowhere Else

That you're here and filling this in already says something brave about you.

To give women what they truly long for, I have to feel it first. Not guess, just know. That's why these questions. Some go further than you're used to, about what you want and what you dread. The more honest you are, the closer you get to what you long for. And only I read it. You can stay anonymous, and you decide how much you share.

I read everything myself and choose the entry that moves me most and is the most honest. Whoever really takes the trouble has the best chance.

What you can win. The grand prize is an extended date with me, four to five hours, worth € 950, at no cost to you. Only the travel costs are added. And if you fill it in seriously, you won't walk away empty-handed anyway: the first hour of your first date is on me, worth € 250. And however it turns out, you win new insight into yourself and into where your desires lie. Sometimes that's worth more than the prize itself.

How you win. No fancy writing. Write what's actually true, not what sounds nice. Be concrete, because one real image tells me more than ten pretty words. And that one answer you barely dare to write down? That's usually the most important one.

Are you doing this together, or for someone else? With your partner: give the answer that's true for both of you. For a friend: fill it in the way you know her, and tell me why she in particular deserves this. Win? Then you get to give the gift, or happily keep it yourself.

Take your time. There's only one right answer here: the real one.

You first.

1.1 You're filling this in as: *

So I send you to the right questions.

A woman, for myself

A couple, together

For a friend, as a gift

Something else

Blind dating is fine, but I'd rather you lift a corner of the veil.

2.1 Which age group are you in? *

Couple: pick the woman's age group. Gift for a friend: pick hers.

25 to 34

35 to 44

45 to 54

55 to 64

65 or older

I'd rather not say

2.2 How would you describe your situation? *

Single

In a relationship, my partner knows about this

In a relationship, this is just for me

Looking together with my partner (couple)

Something else

2.3 How did you find me? *

Through Google

Through AI

Through social media

Someone told me about you

I don't remember

Something else

Now it gets interesting, so just write what you think.

3.1 What do you hunger for when it comes to intimacy and attention? *

Touch, desire, sex, being seen again. What are you missing? Something you've never dared to say out loud is welcome here too. Be as concrete as you dare.

3.3 And if you could keep only one from that list: which one stays? *

Tell me why that one.

3.5 Is there something you've never dared, but do secretly think about? *

Write it down here. Only I read it.

3.6 While we're being this honest: what's your ultimate fantasy? *

Not the polished version. The movie that plays in your head when no one's watching, as raw and honest as it really is. And by now you know: no judgment.

3.7 Where's your limit? *

What do you definitely not want, or what does someone need to know to make you feel safe?

3.8 Fast-forward for a moment. Say you've had an evening like that, exactly as you pictured it. *

What's different the next morning? What did you get, and what did you let go of?

3.9 Picture an ideal date. From the moment someone walks in to the moment he leaves. *

Where are you, how do you feel, what happens? Describe it the way you see it.

3.10 You could look for extra intimacy in many ways, through an app for instance, or someone you run into. And yet you ended up with a gigolo. *

What draws you to that, and what do you hope a date gives you that you wouldn't find anywhere else?

3.11 And when you think of him: what does he have to live up to for you? *

Think about how he is, how he treats you, what you need from him to really be able to let go.

4A.1 What is it in your life, or exactly what's missing, that brought you here to me? *

4A.2 What would you want to feel after a date with me? *

Pick what comes closest.

Desired and seen

Relaxed, with a quiet mind

Confident about my body

Pampered, finally receiving instead of giving for once

Alive, shaken awake

Something else

4A.3 Explain your choice if you like. *

What makes this feeling in particular matter to you?

Are you doing this together, as a couple? Then these questions are for you two. Only fill them in if this applies to you.

4B.1 What do you want to experience together?

What do you hope a date with me does for the two of you?

4B.2 What role do you two see for me?

I'm there for her, he watches

The three of us, as equals

I take the lead over both of you

Something we agree on together beforehand

We don't know yet, we'd love to discover that

4B.3 What matters to you two so it feels good for both of you?

Think about the boundaries between you, jealousy, what is and isn't allowed.

Are you doing this for a friend? What a sweet idea. Fill in the questions the way you know her, only if this applies to you.

4C.1 Who is she to you, and why do you think she in particular deserves or needs this?

4C.2 Why do you think a date with me would do her good?

What's going on in her life?

4C.3 And what would she have doubts about? What might be holding her back?

4C.4 What makes you think she's open to this?

Have the two of you ever talked about it, or do you sense it from something?

Almost everyone has doubts about something, so go ahead and say it. A doubt you voice out loud, I can take away. One you keep to yourself, I can't.

5.2 Of everything you checked: what's your biggest doubt? *

Spell it out, as honestly as you dare.

5.3 Flip it around. What would have to be true, or what would I have to do or say, so you could book with an easy mind? *

5.4 And if I lay out a few options: what would reassure you most? *

Check what would work for you.

Reading reviews from women who came before you

Hearing your voice first, a short phone call

Seeing me first, a short video call

Clear prices on the site, no surprises

Knowing exactly how I handle discretion

A short introduction beforehand, with no obligation at all

Something else

5.5 Have you considered booking something like this before, with me or someone else? How did that go, or what held you back? *

5.6 And have you actually done it, with another gigolo or escort? *

How did it go? What made it good, and what was missing or would you want different?

Most women have the same questions before booking. Let me answer the most important ones up front, so you read the rest with an easier mind.

Discretion. With me, discretion isn't a promise but the foundation. What's between us stays between us, always. I never ask for more than you want to share, and you choose which channel and which name we stay in touch by. No one in your life ever has to notice a thing.

How it goes. You don't have to perform anything and you don't have to be brave. We start by texting, calmly, for as long as you need. We only meet once you're sure, not a moment sooner. You set the pace, at every step.

Safety. Your limit is the limit, period. Even if you only feel it in the moment itself. I read you and I never push. If you say "no" or "hold on", that's fine right away and it changes nothing about how I see you.

And you don't have to take my word for it. This is what Lisanne wrote, who like you had doubts for a long time first:

From my very first message, the communication was clear, warm, and professional. One of the first things that stood out to me was Victor's emphasis on confidentiality and privacy. Victor's depth and empathy made me feel completely safe and understood, which meant I truly dared to enjoy and to explore.
Lisanne

So I know where I can make the difference.

6.2 What makes the difference for you between a service you forget again, and an evening you're still thinking back on months later? *

6.3 What would make you back out of a gigolo right away? What turns you off? *

6.4 And what could move you so much that you'd secretly whisper to your best friend that she has to do this too? *

This is where I get the most out of it for myself, so go ahead and say what you really think.

7.1 What do you still want to know before you'd book someone? *

Which question hasn't been answered, what are you running into?

Almost done. This helps me gauge where you stand.

8.1 A quick word about money. What feels like a fitting amount for an evening that's completely right? *

No right or wrong.

Less than € 150 per hour

€ 150 to € 250 per hour

€ 250 to € 400 per hour

€ 400 or more per hour

I don't look at the hourly rate, but at what the whole experience is worth to me

I'd rather not say

8.2 Where would you most like a meeting to take place? *

At your place

In a hotel

In a cabin

In a (swingers) club

I don't know yet

8.3 And where do you stand right now, if you're completely honest? *

I've booked a gigolo before, or tried to

I'm seriously considering it, it's a matter of the right person and the right moment

I'm really toying with the idea, but there's still a threshold for me

I'm mostly curious, I daydream about it a bit, nothing more yet

Honestly? I mostly entered for the giveaway itself

Fill this in properly if you want a chance at the prize. If I can't reach you, the prize goes to someone else.

9.1 What may I call you? *

9.2 Your email address. *

9.3 Your WhatsApp number. *

9.4 Anything else you'd like to add? *

A question, a thought, anything at all.

9.5 Email me a copy of my answers.

Yes, email me a copy

What do you long for, if no one ever had to know?

Only I read it, and you can stay anonymous. The woman who moves me most wins an evening with me. And if you fill it in seriously, you get something from me regardless. The giveaway runs until December 1, 2026

What You Say Nowhere Else